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The Parent-Child Bond

 

This excerpt from The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-ups by Leonard Sax, MD, PhD, looks at the importance of unconditional, loving parental authority in children's lives. Waldorf Education has always supported the primacy of family life, and worked to nurture the bond between parents and children. 

One quote we love: 

"Consider an acorn. Its strong shell prevents it from growing until the time is right. If you break open the shell too early, you don’t stimulate the growth of a new tree. You just have a dead acorn. As with the acorn, the key to healthy child development is to do the right thing at the right time. Neufeld makes a strong case that the wrong attachment style in childhood and adolescence results in the wrong attachment style in early adulthood. Throughout childhood and adolescence, the primary attachment of a child should be to the parent. If a child has a strong primary attachment to a parent from infancy through adolescence, then when the child becomes an adult, that bond will break naturally, as an acorn breaks open naturally at the right time so that a new tree can grow. Such a child, once she becomes an adult, is ready to head out confidently into the world as an independent young adult."

The Soul of Discipline Course starts February 23


THE SOUL OF DISCIPLINE COURSE

 

Tuesday evenings

February 23, March 1 & 8

7:00-9:00pm

Parent and Child Room (Lower School Building)
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or parents of toddlers to teens

 

 

Join us at Green Meadow Waldorf School as we join forces with the Soul of Discipline for our three-evening course

 

The Soul of Discipline Course provides the Simplicity Parenting approach to warm, firm, and calm guidance. It offers practical tools and skills to last a lifetime, helping parents implement discipline that’s respectful and effective.

 

Together with other parents, you will learn a loving way of providing limits and boundaries that will give your child a feeling of safety, trust, and orientation. 

 

There will be inspiring discussions, sharing of both wonderful and difficult situations at home, exercises to deepen your understanding of discipline, and planning and implementing small, doable changes.

 

This course is for parents who are looking for long-term skills to work with children’s challenging or defiant behavior.

 

Based on the groundbreaking book The Soul of Discipline: The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance- From Toddlers to Teens, by parenting expert (and acclaimed author of the bestselling book Simplicity Parenting) Kim John Payne, M.Ed.

 

Led by: Marieke Duijneveld, certified Parenting Coach and Waldorf Teacher, working as our Parent & Child Teacher and leading Simplicity Parenting and Discipline Courses for several years.

 

 

When:   Tuesday evenings February 23, March 1 & 8

7:00-9:00pm

Where:   Parent and Child Room (Lower School Building)

Costs:   $135/person, $225/two family members (can include au pair), includes material

To Register: contact Marieke Duijneveld at mduijneveld@gmws.org

 

A minimum of 8 people is required for each class.

 

 

New Slideshow about the Kindergarten

Take a look! Green Meadow’s Early Childhood programs foster the foundations of academic excellence. Our Early Childhood teachers provide the young child with a warm, beautiful, loving, home-like environment, which is protective and secure, where the day unfolds in a predictable, regular way. The children are given a range of activities and the structure they need to prepare for the next phase of school life.

Tonight! Raising Sexually Intelligent Kids in a Hyper-Sexualized World

Don't miss Marnie Goldenberg at Green Meadow tonight, at 7:30pm in the Arts Building Music Room. Get the tools you need to have supportive and effective conversations about sex and sexuality with your children, which help them make better decisions.

Not familiar with Marnie? Watch her TEDx talk, or take a look at her website.

This event is free and open to the public.

Thursday night: Paula Moraine

This Thursday night, November 6, at 7:30pm in the Arts Building Music Room, we are pleased to have Paula Moraine offering a talk for parents. The event is free and open to the public. Paula Moraine, M.Ed., will be speaking on attention issues and offering techniques to strengthen our children's executive function, time management, and more. 

Paula has been a Waldorf class teacher and administrator; a tutor for elementary, high school, and college students; and a university adjunct, mentor, coach, and adult educator in teacher training programs in the US, Germany, and Scotland. Paula’s book Helping Students Take Control of Everyday Executive Functions – The Attention Fix has been translated into Dutch, Spanish, and Finnish. She is currently in private practice in Maryland.

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